The What-Not-To-Wear For Dating
How many times have you been out at a bar or night club and witnessed a horrible wardrobe malfunction or someone wearing an outfit that forbade conversation with them?
The decision of what to wear on a night of prowling is an important one. While beauty is on the inside, the outside is what other people see first. Especially once you get away from meeting singles on dating sites and get out into the real world. I believe a good rule of thumb is to think like a hunter if you’re out in hopes of attracting a potential partner. You want to wear the right kind of camouflage for the environment in which you are hunting that is best suited to the prey. In other words, if you’re deer hunting don’t wear the silly duck cap. Consider the type of “prey” you want to attract. Ladies, sincerely, if you dress like a prostitute, you’re liable to attract a man who’s looking for a one night stand. If that’s all you’re after, then great, but I’ve heard too many girls dressed as though they just might at any moment swing around a pole saying “But I met this guy last weekend, and he was such a jerk. All he wanted was sex.” Well do ya think?! If it walks like a prostitute and talks like a prostitute, he probably assumes it’s a prostitute. Now I’m also not saying there’s anything wrong with dressing a little sexy, but there’s a limit. For instance, if you’re going out dancing please don’t wear a skirt that barely covers your unmentionables and then become upset when half the club sees your butt, or other body parts. Wear a low cut top, but not one that might promote a Janet Jackson-esque wardrobe malfunction. Consider all aspects of your evening when picking your outfit. Where are you going, what are you doing, what caliber of human being would you like to have a conversation with? These are all important questions when considering what to wear.